“New year, new me.” We’ve all posted it or seen it on WhatsApp status. By February, most of those resolutions have disappeared under work pressure, school runs and the general wahala of life. The problem usually isn’t a lack of ambition. It’s that the goals were never set up to succeed in the first place.
To set goals you will actually achieve, make them specific and challenging, break them into small actions with deadlines, plan for obstacles, and review your progress regularly. Decades of goal-setting research, especially by psychologists Edwin Locke and Gary Latham, show that specific, difficult goals lead to better performance than vague goals like “do your best”.
Key takeaways
- Specific, challenging goals outperform vague ones.
- SMART goals are a useful start, but you also need a plan, a way to handle obstacles and feedback.
- Focus on a few goals. Too many goals spread your energy thin.
Why most goals fail
- They are vague, such as “make more money” or “get fit”.
- They have no plan or first step.
- There are too many at once.
- Obstacles aren’t anticipated.
- Progress is never reviewed.
Step 1: Write a SMART goal
SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound.
- Vague: “I want to save money.”
- SMART: “I will save ₦300,000 for my emergency fund by 31 March by transferring ₦25,000 every payday.”
Step 2: Make it challenging but realistic
Locke and Latham’s research found that harder goals generally produce higher performance, as long as the person is committed and has the ability and resources. Aim for a goal that stretches you without being impossible.
Step 3: Break it into milestones and actions
Turn a yearly goal into quarterly milestones, then weekly actions. For example, “get a remote job” becomes: update CV (week 1), build portfolio (weeks 2–4), apply to 5 roles weekly (from week 5).
Step 4: Plan for obstacles (WOOP)
Psychologist Gabriele Oettingen’s WOOP method has four parts: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan. After imagining the outcome, identify your main inner obstacle, such as “I get tired after work”, and make an if-then plan: “If I feel too tired, then I’ll do just 15 minutes.” Research suggests this “mental contrasting” approach works better than positive visualisation alone.
Step 5: Track and review weekly
Feedback is one of the key conditions for goal success. Spend 15 minutes every Sunday reviewing: What did I do? What got in the way? What will I change next week?
Step 6: Limit yourself to 1–3 key goals
Focus beats ambition spread thin. Choose the goals that matter most this season of your life, whether that’s career, finances, health or relationships.
Try this this week
Take your most important goal for the next three months and rewrite it as a SMART goal. Then do the WOOP exercise in 10 minutes: write your Wish, the best Outcome, your biggest inner Obstacle, and an if-then Plan to handle it. Stick it where you’ll see it every morning.
Frequently asked questions
Should I share my goals with others?
Research is mixed. Sharing with a supportive accountability partner who will check in on your progress can help. Announcing goals widely for social approval may not.
What is the difference between a goal and a system?
A goal is the result you want. A system is the set of habits that gets you there. You need both. See how to build habits that stick.
Related reading
- How to build self-discipline
- The Eisenhower Matrix for prioritising
- Japa or stay? How to decide without the pressure
Sources
- Locke, E. A., & Latham, G. P. (2002). Building a practically useful theory of goal setting and task motivation: A 35-year odyssey. American Psychologist, 57(9), 705–717.
- Oettingen, G. (2014). Rethinking Positive Thinking: Inside the New Science of Motivation. Current.
- Doran, G. T. (1981). There’s a S.M.A.R.T. way to write management’s goals and objectives. Management Review, 70(11), 35–36.
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